I am asked often about psychology of Thai girls and usually men who meet girls in bars, or women to whom it is strongly curious “that such in Thai girls ask that they are loved so by men”. Not to respond to each letter separately, I write the full answer here.
What such in Thai women why they are loved so by men? Women, look at a normal situation: the man, telling in the company of friends “as its affairs”, tells something like “and here I mean such smart.” Usually his woman right there inserts the identity: “you that smart? hm. well-well”. Only if his woman, that, so far it tells you about that what it smart, she will sit next silently, to such look as though she precisely knows that it and smart and in general the coolest man in the world. And not because she does not speak it Russian or speaks on thaw – an English, she really so thinks. And that the most interesting — the man becomes valid more abruptly every day)
Of course, Thai girls from “decent society” and “girls from bars” — it as much different societies as they are different in your country. Though there are moments which are identical to that and others — it simply part of culture.
All information in this post is obtained me from stories of farang, from books and English-language blogs — let it will be a little separate, but it that from me usually want to hear also that I can answer owing to the modest knowledge). In my Life group on Travel you can download three most informative books on Thai psychology and culture (it is possible to download files in exiles of group).
That I think personally finds room in one paragraph: it is possible if I was the man of a certain type, me would also demolish a roof because when you see this the sincere, filled with attentive tenderness and care look when you are asked about such problems which you procrastinate only in the own head when constantly remind and let know that you “ze best” — it of course has. When in response to your jambs the girl does not hiss as a dragon, and smiles or roars with laughter — it has even more. Thai girls — they as essence — are able to turn into your aura, without accenting on own identity, but only on yours … It is the highest degree of tenderness and attention not available to the western civilized women.
The truth is also other party of this attention — girl can be very jealous. Not so long ago in local newspapers wrote how the girl cut off advantage to the husband for change, it tied him to a balloon and released in the sky.
Generally, interesting to esteem about psychology of Thai girls will be not only to men, but also women — here is to that to learn actually.
For a start I will bring one small head from the book “These Amazing Thais”. In the head it is told just about the relations between Thai girls and farang. The book very abruptly tells about psychology and culture of Thai society.